
Brighton, NY Police Chief David Catholdi
BY DAVY V.
If you follow my YouTube channel DavyVTV, then you've probably seen my videos where I have featured various Brighton, New York Police Officers over the years.
But there's one Brighton, New York Police official who I haven't featured and that's Brighton, New York Police Chief David Catholdi.
To be honest, my interactions with Chief Catholdi have been somewhat limited since I moved to Brighton, New York almost 20 years ago.
By the way, for any new readers from other parts of the U.S. and the world, Brighton, New York is a suburb of Rochester, New York, located in upstate NY.
At the time Chief Catholdi was Captain Catholdi, and our paths rarely crossed.
But in recent years, especially after losing my mom in 2022, I have had the pleasure of talking with Chief Catholdi on a few occasions.
I'm going to get right to the point, but before I do, I ask that as you read this, you try and take something from it, that perhaps you can apply to your lives.
LIFE IS SHORT.
I know we've all heard it before.
And I know it can tend to sound cliche.
BUT IT'S TRUE.
In the past 10 years, I have lost my aunt or as we called her "Tia Marta", my mom, and this past September, my brother, my only sibling.
And one thing I have learned is the importance of giving people their flowers while they're still here.
In other words, DO NOT WAIT until they're gone.
And I have learned that in one of the hardest, most painful ways possible.
By living with regret.
The regret that I didn't do enough of that with my aunt, my mom and my brother.
Yes, I told them I loved them, but not enough.
And yes, I spent time with them, but not enough .
And I regret that every day.
Knowing I can't go back and change that.
But what I can change, and what YOU can change, is give folks their flowers while they're still here.
Let your loved ones know how much you love them.
Let friends know how you much you appreciate them and their friendship.
DO IT.
WHILE THEY ARE STILL HERE.

Back to Chief Catholdi.
I have to be honest here.
For years I thought Chief Catholdi didn't like me.
And I don't even know why.
I guess I assumed that he didn't like my "loud mouth", at times "over the top" and "controversial" aspects.
Yes, they're in quotations, as they're all words that have been used to describe me, by critics including local news media.
And while I wouldn't necessarily say that Chief Catholdi is a Davy V. fan, I now feel I was completely wrong about him.
The truth is that Brighton, New York Police Chief David Catholdi has always treated me with respect and professionalism.
But even more important to me, is that like his police officers, Brighton, New York Police Chief David Catholdi has shown me kindness, during one of the most difficult times in my life.
And no better example of this than when we met for coffee recently.
It's important to add that it's been an extremely hard time for me with both the anniversaries of my brother and my Dad's passing coming up.
And as I waited for Chief Catholdi at a local coffee shop, I had a panic attack.
I started getting them after my Dad committed suicide in 1993 and if you or someone you know has ever had one then you know how terrifying they can be.
I've always been a firm believer in being honest with people.
So, as soon as Chief Catholdi pulled up, I walked to him, shook his hand and told him what had just happened and I have to admit I felt both nervous and embarrassed.
And this was the moment that I realized Chief Catholdi is a good man and has a good heart.
Chief Catholdi was very understanding, and accommodating, even agreeing to sit outside so I could get some fresh air, even though it was a hot day.
And I'm very thankful and appreciative of the Chief.
We talked for a while, and I even showed him one of my classic bicycles.
And as he has dome in the past, Chief Catholdi gave me some great advice.
Chief Catholdi is a busy man.
He didn't have to meet me for coffee.
But he did.
And I'm grateful for that.
Chief, if you're reading this, I want to say THANK YOU.
As a child I always looked up to police officers.
When me and my friends played cops and robbers on our bikes in Miami, Florida, I never wanted to be a robber.
I was always the cop!
My favorite TV show was CHiPs!
and I will never forget when Officer Friendly came to visit my 3rd grade class at Jonathan Child #21 school in Rochester, New York.
I was so excited that a police officer came to my school!
That respect and that trust I had for police was shattered when some very bad Rochester, New York cops terrorized me and my family.
And although I have successfully sued the Rochester, New York Police Department twice, that trust and respect for police has never been the same.
Chief Catholdi, YOUR police department, the Brighton, New York Police Department, and YOUR officers, the good men and women who put on the uniform every day, have not only been professional, but they have shown me kindness through a very difficult period in my life.
AND SO HAVE YOU.
Chief, YOUR Department has helped me begin to restore and regain that trust for law enforcement I once had.
AND SO HAVE YOU.
You're a good man Chief.
Thank you.

